What is Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)?
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) is one of the most widely used and scientifically grounded forms of therapy in psychology and in coaching. It aims to identify and change the thought patterns that influence our emotional wellbeing and behaviour. CBT helps people recognise dysfunctional beliefs, develop new perspectives and establish healthy behaviours.
How does CBT work?
CBT is based on the idea that thoughts, feelings and behaviours are interconnected. Negative thoughts can lead to unhealthy feelings and behaviours that limit everyday life and quality of life. The CBT approach is to break this cycle by:
- Identifying negative thoughts: Often we’re not even aware of the automatic negative beliefs that influence us. For example: “I’m not good enough” or “I’m going to fail.”
- Questioning and reframing thoughts: After identifying these thought patterns, you learn to look at them objectively and replace them with constructive, realistic beliefs.
- Changing behaviours: By changing your thoughts, your behaviour can also become more positive, for example by setting small, achievable goals or introducing new, healthy routines.
What is CBT used for?
CBT is used successfully for a wide range of psychological and emotional challenges:
- Depression: Help with breaking out of the cycle of hopelessness and passivity.
- Anxiety disorders: Reducing anxiety through gradual exposure and reappraisal of perceived threats.
- Stress and burnout: Improving stress management and building resilience.
- Compulsions and phobias: Support in managing compulsive thoughts and behaviours.
- Relationship problems: Improving communication and understanding in interpersonal relationships.
CBT is not limited to mental illness, though – it’s also used in coaching to foster personal growth and goal-setting.
An example from practice
Imagine you’re preparing for an important presentation, but your first thought is: “I’m going to fail in front of everyone.” This thought triggers anxiety, which leads you to prepare less well, which could actually result in a poor outcome.
With CBT, you would:
- Identify the thought: “I’m going to fail in front of everyone.”
- Question it: Is that true? What evidence do I have for it? What speaks against it?
- Reframe it: “I’ve prepared, and even if it doesn’t go perfectly, I’ll learn from it.”
- Act: With this new perspective, you’d prepare with more motivation and approach the situation with more confidence.
The role of a coach or therapist
A CBT coach or therapist is a guide who helps you understand the connection between thoughts, feelings and actions. She or he asks questions to explore your thought patterns and offers tools that empower you to work on your challenges independently.
Conclusion: why CBT is effective
CBT is pragmatic, solution-focused and evidence-based. It doesn’t only focus on the past, but also on the present and the future. Through its clear, structured methods, people can learn lasting ways to change their thinking, regulate their emotions and improve their quality of life.
If you feel inspired by CBT and are looking for support, I’m happy to stand by your side as a life coach. Together we can work on turning your challenges into opportunities.
Your peer for emotional awareness, burnout and high sensitivity – Winn Chelini
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